Like your "best" friend? Want to change the way she feels towards you? Read the following steps to guide you to help change your situation
1. Distance yourself from her! If you keep in contact with her frequently, try to see/call/text/instant message her a lot less. Show her that you have other things to do besides hanging with her all the time. This will make her think about you more since now your not around as often. If she calls/texts you respond in your casual way, but make sure to keep it short! you want to be her boyfriend not her friend remember?
2 Change the way you approach her when talking to her. Talk to her less like a friend and more like a potential future bf. Give this some time and you'll see she'll start approaching you differently too. Don't go jump and talk to her like a bf. Gradually increase your change in talking to her. you don't want to seem creepy and needy.3 Date other girls. This maybe hard if you really like this girl, but it will also help you realize there are a lot of fish in the sea. Maybe you'll find someone better then her? Regardless if you do or don't this will show her there are other girls interested in you which will attract her more to you.4. Make sure you always look and smell your best where ever you go, especially when you do see her once in a while. This will greatly effect her looking at you differently. Dress as if your going on a date, even if your not. You never know if you'll bump into her, so if you do you always wanna look and smell your best.5. Take her out to a movie, dinner, and a romantic view of someplace. Show her your romantic. If you can't think of any place to take her check the net for first date tips.6. Make a move!!! If you see a change in her behavior around you, try to make a move. Don't think about it too much cause then you'll stress yourself out and create awkward silences. Just make one when you see a good opportunity when you two are really close, or if she hints out that shes interested.
Well good luck dude. If this doesn't work out she'll still be your friend if shes true. So bottom line is you still have a great friend and you haven't lost anything.
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